Thursday, July 26, 2012

Stop Being so "PC": Daniel Tosh and Rape Jokes

Not so funny Tosh, I wish I could give him a scumbag hat too.
On Daniel Tosh's rape joke: It's not a matter of being politically correct or "PC" it's about addressing the dynamics of power that go into a situation where you have a male asserting his dominance by retorting, "Wouldn’t it be funny if that girl got raped by like, 5 guys right now? Like right now? What if a bunch of guys just raped her…” Some people have argued that it all depends of how Tosh intonated the previous statement- that if he said it in a jokingly manner and not in a hostile one that it would be okay and acceptable. But it's not in this case because the words themselves are so threatening in carrying the intent of sexual violence against a womyn, not only by one man, but by a group of men- a criminal reality that is all too well within the possibilities of material realities for women to this day. However, the next and perhaps more significant issue is how can a statement of gang rape or rape in general be funny? Could it be imagined that if indeed that female or any other female audience member was gang raped right there, right then, in the past, or in the future by one or as Tosh suggested, five men, that could somehow elicit some comedic reflex? That sexual violence against a woman or women or actually anyone in that matter could be funny? I don't have to imagine that the female individual had to be someone I personally know in order to find Tosh's statement's not only insulting, but also threatening. And I bring in the word threatening because that is where the power analysis comes into play- that Tosh as a white straight cis male celebrity has more much power in a male dominated environment in both the bar where the incident occurred, but also in society over a single womyn, not to mention if she was a womyn of color- the threat of rape and gang rape does seem all the more possible to the point where I am not surprised that the female individual left in fear for her safety. Rape isn't something that Tosh or his male audience members for the most part have any material fears about (or even me as a male identified individual)- and it's about time that they recognize that male privilege and the oppression they impose through that privilege as misogyny and sexism. And so I bring it back to the initial point of political correctness by really challenging people to ask what does being PC mean? What is PC? What isn't PC? How far does PC go? Personally, I think its term that is ultimately a very superficial excuse used by people shielding themselves from their own privileges and the oppression of others and by those would either willfully or ignorantly assume to live in a power static world. By being either PC or un-PC is to disavow the history of violence that shapes both the present realities and future possibilities of society. In conclusion then rape isn't funny because it isn't "PC", rape is not funny because violence against womyn in a heteropatriarchal society isn't a joke or statement without consequences but is a material reality that scars the bodies and psyches womyn all over the world as a result of institutional structures of power.

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To sign Change.org petition to pull Tosh off the air: Click Here

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

High Maitenance


To the white guy who posted a
Newspaper clipping of
Vietnamese mail order brides,
Saying
This is for all the homeboys
With yellow fever who don't want
High maintenance
Americanized
Viet girls...
 To the white guy who
Astutely commented
With an emphasis on the
ASS in ass-tutely,
‎Although it still goes on today,
Pretty much almost everywhere else in the world
Where they haven’t adopted a
Western-type culture for their society.
To this white guy
This dipshit, I say:

You must have missed the memo
That "western culture" has been
Dominating, subjugating, and
Destroying societies since antiquity.
Cue fact,
That antiquity already automatically indexes
Greco-Roman-Western ancient society.
As if nothing else mattered.

You probably missed the other memo too,
About the horrific human trafficking
That goes on within the US
Apparently the epitome of western society
Just isn't western enough...

High maintenance
Americanized Viet girls?
What's really HIGH MAINTAINENANCE
Is dealing with dipshits like you
Who forget that
WE ARE HERE
CUASE YOU FUCKED IT UP
OVER THERE
And go on to spew garbage that is
Misogynistic as hell and
Perpetuates the continual oppression of
Communities not only in this country,
But also across the world.

For all the guys who said "YEAH"
Why don't you ask yourself
If you would still say that if it were
Your mother, your sister, your child who is
Trapped in that scenario?
What would you say to the other guys
Who would still be saying "YEAH"?
OR DOES ONE ALWAYS
HAVE TO GO SO FAR INTO
HYPOTHETICALS
WITHOUT REALIZING THE
SERIOUSNESS OF THE ISSUE,
WITHOUT BEING ABLE TO RECOGNIZE
THAT COMMUNITY IS IN FACT
AN EXTENSION OF YOURSELF?
THAT WHAT HAPPENS TO "OTHERS"
ALSO MATTERS TO YOURSELF?!

So before you start calling
Women who refuse to part of your
Fucked up orientalist exotifications
"High maintenance"
 Why don't you contemplate about how
High maintenance your
Ignorance is to others who have to
Deal with the pain of reading your
Stupid words and process it by typing up
A damned long response to it on Facebook.
Shit.